l Why are you single l

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Rinie dekda ada bce some article yg rasanya nk share ngn korg..This topic will be more sensitive to certain who really hesitant to their status..I’m sure you’ve asked yourself more than once: “Why me? why me feel alone? why me still single? " But before you find fault in what you’re doing on the dating scene, take a look at what you’re thinking.

There have many points or reasons where man/women out there thinking about this problem.The most attractive or most common reasons are:

*below reasons adalah yg dekda rasa ramai out there pikir.

1) “Nobody is looking for someone like me.” This is a “pervasive” way to look at your situation, declaring that your single status is both far-reaching and without exceptions. But look at what you’re really saying: nobody is looking for someone like you. That is just plain wrong! Take the “specific” point of view instead: for whatever reason, the last few failed dates you had were, indeed, looking for someone different — but so were you! You want someone who loves and appreciates your unique qualities and one-of-a-kind laugh, right? Then keep your eyes peeled for that person. You two just haven’t met yet.

2) “I’m better at being single. I guess I’m just supposed to stay single forever.” Just because one failed relationship brought you down doesn’t mean you’re meant to be alone for life. You’re allowed to be “good” at being single — i.e. you enjoy time alone, you fly through your to-do lists and you can handle being dateless at a wedding. Your single status is only “permanent” if you choose to keep it that way! Whatever is making you feel bad about yourself is temporary — it’s one person (or maybe it’s a string of them) who can’t make the connection with your fabulous self, not the whole human race. You’re currently single because you haven’t found a specific person you want to settle down with who loves you completely. That’s the real reason you’re single. But if you want a relationship (because you can be good at that, too!), decide right now that you’re meant to be in one and watch the dating world flock to you and your aura of optimism.

Sources : yahoo.match.com/y/article

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